Your beauty is beyond compare / with flaming locks of auburn hair,
with ivory skin and eyes of emerald green.
Your smile is like a breath of Spring, / your voice is soft like Summer rain
and I cannot compete with you, Jolene
Control seems a recurring theme in Poison's story. Surrendering too much of it let Jason send her to hospital, for a painful transmutation that would take six long months. Afterwards: overcompensation as she revels in her new-found powers — in power, in control. Reassurance that men will not hurt her again. Trust was how she'd let pain into her life; relinquishing control had invited betrayal. Now her pheromones would see to it that control would remain with her, absolute control — trust was no longer necessary. But of course, safety is all it grants her, the blend of her fears and her pheromonal makeup getting in the way of true human encounters, separating her from the rest of mankind long before appearances followed, before she moved into the park to live with the plants entirely. Then came the orphans. Baby steps in trust. Not exactly a balanced, equal relationship, but at least a loving, nurturing one. Then came Harley Quinn. Not exactly balanced either, neither the clowngirl herself, nor the friendship with her.
And then, there is the Batman. An adult. An equal, to say the very least, and a man at that. The only man in fact that she can see herself trusting, that she could see herself trust ever since she came to Gotham so many years ago. A curious choice, as her friends would probably argue; a man dangerous in more ways than one, dangerous in battle when they are at cross purposes, and more dangerous still to her softer core.
Batman is attractive not only because of his immediately obvious attributes, but — perhaps more importantly — for being upstanding and incorruptible. His standards may be inconvenient at times, but at least, he protects his and their integrity with his life. So if she is to open up again, who else would she do it with but the last honest man, the only she could trust with herself? His being able to protect himself from her pheromones makes him dangerous (and exciting!), but it is also a necessary prerequisite for any encounter as equals — after all when her pheromones work, she needs no trust, no social graces.
As for sex as such (cf. toxic skin), it may be worthy of note that while Poison has often been portrayed as seductive, she is usually portrayed as a woman many, if not most, men would love to sleep with, rather than one who has slept with many men; the canonical examples of unfulfilled desire[LDK43][SB(A)5]… in the film noir femme fatale tradition far outweighing those where actual sex is suggested[TPT], and while it's difficult to tell how many people she slept with, the number of people she was in love with is suggested to be very low — Jason Woodrue and the Batman, essentially.1
Extending trust to men in general and sharing any sort of intimacy with one in particular, without the safety net of her pheromones, can't be easy for Poison, and where it would have been painful enough for any other woman to rebuild her trust, it must have been particularly confusing for one who had just been elected the avatar of Gaia.
Given the blatant imagery of dominance and submission we are treated to, an attraction to "abusive men"2 even before she becomes Poison Ivy34 and a pervasive preoccupation with control (not to mention the fact that the character is based on BDSM-model Bettie Page°), it is anybody's guess whether that intimacy takes the (oft ritualised) form of BDSM°, but in the BatVerse°, it's certainly possible.
1 | A nameless boy-friend she has after her transformation and who totals his car after an argument with her is mentioned[LDK43], but while sex is probable, it seems safe to assume that her feelings for him never equalled those for Woodrue or Batman. | |
2 | I'm very disappointed that we are shown neither Batman's expression nor thoughts when he is told that she is "drawn to abusive men," it just would have been so hilarious for him to go, "hold on, wait a minute, and she likes me!??" | |
3 | One might argue that after her isolated childhood, Pamela felt that "any attention is good attention", but with her looks even then and her intelligence, it should have been possible for her to find someone who would treat her better than Jason Woodrue did; that she still fell for him would suggest that his treatment of her did not bother her so much (if it didn't outright attract her), that other factors were more important — like shared obsession with plants or status — or, as suggested in canon, that the obsession, unhealthy as it may have been, was actually purely romantic in nature. | |
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And of course, becoming Poison Ivy gave rise to a new set of issues
on top of that.
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